A bit longer than those above because of twisted road taken...
Saw her senior picture on the shelf at a friend's house (who happened to be her uncle) and said, 'Who's that?'
Had a blind date Valentines 1987, took off slow, but prior to my military entry in Aug 87 we were as close to all in as you can get. I was accepted to USMA in 88 (West Point) where one is not allowed to be married/have dependents so I broke it off not wanting to make her and I wait 9 years (I did not want to be married in the Army). I resigned during my stint and went to civilian work. She had friends there. We each married other (both abusive) people. We each got divorced within a year of each other and took up where we left off. Our 20th anniversary is next week.
What attracted me? Her photo and her patience.